Friday, July 27, 2012
5 Ways To Maximise Ramadan By Serving Others
There is a wealth of material online which can help provide many ideas on making your Ramadan spiritually more uplifting. My piece here is a tiny addition to all the wonderful stuff that is out there.
Many people cannot fast. There is a whole catergory of
individuals who do not fast and this is available through the links above. When we generally think
of an individual who cannot fast due to health reasons who do we think of?
Someone in a hospital bed with machines all over them? A diabetic? Or someone
with kidney failure? Or someone receiving chemotherapy? It seems that some of
us think that you must be quite poorly (physically) to be considered exempt
from fasting. However, the wisdom in Tradition allows a whole host of different
illnesses to be considered valid conditions for not fasting. Sometimes fasting
may be delayed until the individual is feeling better, but other
times the individual may have a continuous health condition meaning they will
not make up those fasts.
Some people who are not fasting may appear healthy-looking
with a lot of energy but removal of food and drink would not be conducive to
their wellbeing. It is important never to question the sincerity of an
individual who is not fasting, for that is between them and God Almighty.
The Tradition teaches us that the Prophet Alaislam was the
most kindest person and he was even more generous in Ramadan. Serving others is
one unique way in incorporating this characteristic into our lives. Here are
some things you may wish to consider if you are not fasting to help maximise
your day:
1. Housework
Helping an individual who is fasting can really be
appreciated, especially given the length of the current fasts. Help with
housework chores including cleaning and preparing food can go a long way. This
would be particularly welcomed prior to the end of Ramadan when Eid
preparations begin and the house can do with a good ole scrub!
2. Clear out
I have written before about doing clear-outs for charity
here. It really is a fantastic way to combine both helping others aswell as
letting go of possessions and taking a few steps towards freeing yourself from
material chains.
3. Child minding
As more children are on holidays this Ramadan, this can
cause additional work for families in terms of feeding them and keeping an eye
on them. Children can consume more energy in the holiday season because they
get bored so easily and are always on the look-out for fun activities. You can
volunteer your time to assist in this process by spending some time with
children on a worthwhile activity.
4. Gardening
People who have gardens to take care of will know how
keeping on top of it all can require a considerable amount of time and energy.
Weeding itself can be very time-consuming. With all the rainfall we have had,
many people's gardens have not maintained a good shape. Helping someone with
regular maintenance (even a few hours per week) can contribute significantly in
reducing the workload they have. If you know of people with allotments, then
you can volunteer to assist with that too. Gardening in the summer can be very
testing as the heat can cause dehydration - a fasting individual would be
unable to have regular drink breaks. Any help therefore would be great.
5. Shopping
Who enjoys shopping on an empty stomach? We don’t but we
must get in essentials! Helping someone by doing their shopping for them can
save them valuable energy, time and unnecessary queing!
So there you have it, a few things you can do in
Ramadan to attain goodness through your service to others!
Ramadan Blessings!
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